You haven't hired many long-term care attendants, eh, Rupert?
A few. Father in law has quite bad altzimers now, and we have people going in 3 times a day. He shouts at me as I "Stole his car" and hit Sue, so we do our best to keep away to lower the anger levels. He still lives in the community but with loads of help, and I expect him to be in a home before Christmas.
My Dad had a short term helpas Mum did the caring. A friend (ex nurse) was one. So far we have been Lucky. But yes, Nursing homes have a dreadful reputation in the UK.
Anecdotally, I was talking with Pete and Colin about it a few years back, and one of them spoke of a care home that would only allow you in if you had a catheter fitted.
And that is why more people will have to do it, not just the thieving, lying, cheating assholes