>>Shantaram
I enjoyed it. Some great parts. Not a "must read" for me, but worth sticking through to the end.
>> in India for a couple of months in the 1980,s
I went in 1984. I went with two friends, one of whom had been Indian, but got his US citizenship literally one month before we went (lived his first 13 years in India and we were 21 at the time). He straddled the two worlds to a degree he didn't know. He said he thought of himself as an Indian living in a America, but in India felt an American visiting India.
We had planned on 12 weeks, with a fair bit of it with his family. We never did see his family. After about 8 weeks, without telling me, he went to the Air Kuwait office and changed my flight. The person said, "You can't change someone else's flight." My friend said, "I think he's dying," and they let him do it. He came back and said, "Here are your tickets. You go home tomorrow."
I went do India a lean, fit 142 pounds. I came home at 117 pounds. Dysentery did some of it. Malaria did the rest. When my mother saw me, she said, "You left your butt in India." So, I can't say India took my heart. But it did take my butt.