All very good points. I think it is also very likely that in some households intra-family spread may take a while; think about the house with the brooding teenagers who spend all their time in their room, somewhat isolated from other members of the family. I've also seen people interacting with extended families, like grandparents babysitting their grandkids while the parents work, and I have a neighbor who has visited his brother's family for dinner.
I honestly don't think this will be over in the US or UK until we have a vaccine or herd immunity, neither place has their act together enough.
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Edit RC's link: There seems to be a lot of false negatives in testing. My cousin is an ICU nurse, she had the symptoms to a T (dry cough, head aches, fever, breathing difficulties) and there was a COVID-19 patient on her floor. Her test came back negative. I know it is only anecdotal case, but I am seeing a lot of people saying the same thing.